Hey guys! How are you doing? In today's post, I wanted to talk about problems that we might have with a friend. They are the norm rather than the exception and it is said that it is healthy to have a dispute sometimes. Nevertheless, some quarrels may have detrimental effects on your friendship if not solved. Some other times of course, we should let things the way they are. But, when talking about e.g. a misunderstanding, explanations must be given in order to avoid similar disputes.
Now, there are 2 main possibilities after a dispute:
>You don't talk to your friend or your friend doesn't talk to you
>You talk but the atmosphere around you two is strange.
There is no possibility such as talking and laughing like before.
If the first one occurs, then the choices are:
☺Do the first step and talk to him/her. If you explain to your friend what really happened or apologize or say what made you angry about him/her. You might not make up but you'll know you've made an effort. Please, do not refer to him/her drawbacks, it is like critic, friends don't do that.
☺He/she might talk to you. If he/she is aggressive, calm down your friend and try to talk to him/her with a natural tone in your voice. DO NOT shout, yell, say bad things you might regret for later.If he/she is trying to solve the problem between you two, chat and you'll make up for sure!
*HEY! If you learn that he/she says things about you and lies for your quarrel, don't try to talk to him/her...It's a waste of time!*
If the second one takes place:
☻Bring up the subject of your quarrel. Do not start saying again and again that it is him/her fault (even if this is the truth).
☻Of course, give your explanations and ask for your friend's.
This is it! I'm not a consultant, but this is just a piece of advice. But, you don't have to look up such things in the internet. It's up to you. And, if you two are real friends, you'll always be together!!! ♥
Now, there are 2 main possibilities after a dispute:
>You don't talk to your friend or your friend doesn't talk to you
>You talk but the atmosphere around you two is strange.
There is no possibility such as talking and laughing like before.
If the first one occurs, then the choices are:
☺Do the first step and talk to him/her. If you explain to your friend what really happened or apologize or say what made you angry about him/her. You might not make up but you'll know you've made an effort. Please, do not refer to him/her drawbacks, it is like critic, friends don't do that.
☺He/she might talk to you. If he/she is aggressive, calm down your friend and try to talk to him/her with a natural tone in your voice. DO NOT shout, yell, say bad things you might regret for later.If he/she is trying to solve the problem between you two, chat and you'll make up for sure!
*HEY! If you learn that he/she says things about you and lies for your quarrel, don't try to talk to him/her...It's a waste of time!*
If the second one takes place:
☻Bring up the subject of your quarrel. Do not start saying again and again that it is him/her fault (even if this is the truth).
☻Of course, give your explanations and ask for your friend's.
This is it! I'm not a consultant, but this is just a piece of advice. But, you don't have to look up such things in the internet. It's up to you. And, if you two are real friends, you'll always be together!!! ♥
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